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“Before I got pregnant, I was full-steam ahead in life,” said Carolina Pichardo, cofounder with Mary Targia of the educational and inspirational New York-based organization and website YUM (Young Urban Moms).
“I’d received a partial scholarship to New York University, after traveling abroad and interning at the New York City Public Advocate’s Office and Tor Books Publishing.”
But when she found out she was pregnant, the resulting harsh remarks and judgmental looks threw the slim, stately Harlem-born Pichardo off her track—for a while: “I just became angry. I didn’t know what to do with that anger, so I simply worked hard to prove those around me wrong.”
With some of the same rebel instincts that had propelled her parents to immigrate to the U.S. from the Dominican Republic—where her mother was a teacher and her father a doctor—she stayed in school through most of her pregnancy. She took a semester off after her daughter Lyanna (known as Lulu), now age 11, was born. Then she returned to earn her bachelor’s degree in communications from NYU “with leaky boob stories galore.”
Posted in Inspiration, Leadership, No Excuses, Power, Power Tools, She's Doing It
Tagged 9 Ways power tools, BlogHer, Carolina Pichardo, leadership, No Excuses, power, power tools, power-to, She's Doing It, women and leadership, women and power, Young Urban Moms, YUM
The Golden Globe Awards this week featured the most gorgeous dresses I’ve ever seen (yes, I confess to being a fashion watcher) and Meryl Streep winning her 9th Golden Globe, for her extraordinary portrayal of the British rock-ribbed Conservative former …
Posted in 9 Ways Blog, Gender, Know Your History, Leadership, No Excuses, Politics, Power Tools, She's Doing It
Tagged 9 Ways, BlogHer, BlogHer Career, sexism, women and leadership, women in politics
This is an advice column where I’m supposed to answer your questions. But this Thanksgiving, I’m shaking things up in my life, so I turned the tables and asked some fabulous women leaders this question:
What leadership lesson are you most thankful for?
The outpouring of responses made me exceedingly grateful. Not a turkey among them.
Here with a Thanksgiving feast of delicious wisdom you can savor calorie-free—and use all year.
Saying grace (and listening to it)
Anita Sands last year at age 34 became COO of UBS Wealth Management Americas, and is one of the smartest and best grounded leaders I know. She credits her father with her most important leadership lesson: “common sense is not the common.” Not surprisingly, she then resonated with this advice:
My first boss when I was a young academic really trained me in how to “think”. The first thing he told me was that people who can find the answers are a dime a dozen but people who know what are the right questions to ask are really valuable. So I’ve always tried to employ that skill as a leader – am I asking the right questions, what question is not being asked in the room.
Posted in 9 Ways Blog, Heartfeldt Leadership Advice, Inspiration, Leadership, No Excuses, Personal Relationships, Workplace
Tagged Anita Sands, Ann Veneman, BlogHer, BlogHer Career column, Bonnie Marcus, Caterina Fake, Claudia Chan, Courage PAC, Dana Theus, Elayne Clift, Elisa Camahort Page, Gloria Feldt, Jennifer Brunner, Jill Miller Zimon, Jory Des Jardins, Lisa Stone, Lisa Truong, Roberta Voss, Sheckys.com, UNICEF
I knew there’d be pushback the minute I dubbed vision the #1 leadership characteristic.
“Get real,” several readers e-mailed. It reminded me of the cartoon a colleague once gave me, bearing the caption: “When you’re up to your a** in alligators, it’s hard to remember your goal was to drain the swamp.”
In a time of economic chaos, when many people are desperately trying to keep those writhing reptiles from nipping off their knees, lofty vision talk sounds unrealistic.
It’s difficult to keep your eyes on the prize, your focus on the vision, your hand steady to the wheel when the assumptions you thought were well grounded turn out to be quicksand. But a counterintuitive skill that can help you thrive in times of change and disruption is to embrace chaos as opportunity…
Posted in 9 Ways Blog, Carpe the Chaos, Heartfeldt Leadership Advice, Inspiration, Leadership, No Excuses, Power Tools, Workplace
Tagged bankruptcy, Bill Gates, BlogHer, BlogHer Career, carpe the chaos, change, chaos, chaos as opportunity, Conde Nast, Condé Nast Portfolio, Creative Whacks, embrace change, embrace controversy, Gloria Feldt, leadership, Lehmann Brothers, Lehmann Sisters, Marketwatch, MCCAIN, Microsoft, No Excuses, Recessionwire, Roger Oech, Sara Clemence, Sarah Palin, The Huffington Post, vision, Wall Street Journal, women and leadership
A “Heartfeldt” THANK YOU to everyone who read and commented on my virgin column on leadership at BlogHer Career. Your lively responses, challenges, and questions affirm that leadership issues are high on the agenda.
Fork in the Road courtesy of Debra Condren, author of "Ambition Is Not a Dirty Word"
Hands down the hottest topic in questions this past two weeks was mentoring. Such as:
What’s the relationship between mentoring and fostering leadership capacity in women? Mentoring compared to sponsorship? How do you get a mentor and cultivate a mutually beneficial relationship? How to lead, mentor, and retain high performing employees? How to get a mentor or be a mentor when you’re a consultant or an entrepreneurial business of one?
Great questions all, threading into two major categories around which there are many stories and studies to share:
Posted in 9 Ways Blog, Heartfeldt Leadership Advice, Leadership, No Excuses, Personal Relationships, Workplace
Tagged Ambition is Not a Dirty Word, Andrea March, BlogHer, Brooke Axtell, business, Catalyst, Debra Condren, Gloria Feldt, Judith Steinhart, leadership, mentoring, Mildred Chaffin, questions and answers, sponsoring, Sponsoring Women to Success, Vickie Pynchon, women and leadership, women and power, Women's Leadership Exchange